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Respect - aphorisms, catchphrases, phrases, sayings. Respect for the sages of the Torah Quotes about respect for elders

Anyone who is present at the Torah lesson, where they teach about what he has already heard, let him not say: “We have already heard this!”, But keep silent and continue to listen

The principle of the commandment

1. Respect for the sages of the Torah is the imperative commandment of the Torah, and it is a great sin to ridicule or hate them, and because of this sin Yerushalayim was destroyed. Therefore, one who sees a sage who is unkempt should treat him with the same respect.

2. One who shows respect for the sages of the Torah acquires awe of Heaven and is rewarded with the fact that his sons and the husbands of his daughters will also be sages. And this is true even if he himself is not worthy of this.

Those who host the sage of the Torah and who try to benefit him from their property are like those who make a grateful sacrifice, and the meal arranged for the sage is considered a commandment.

3. Talk to a sage in a calm, respectful tone. And it would be more correct to refer to him as "you".

4. Those who are present at the Torah lesson, where they teach about what he has already heard, let him not say: “We have already heard this!” - but keep silent and continue to listen.

Also, if a person is in a hurry, he should not make signs to the teacher that he would finish as soon as possible, but let him come out himself, showing respect.

Duty to get up

5. To stand before the sage of the Torah is also an imperative commandment, even if the sage is still young. The elder should be respected and honored more than anyone else.

Some write that a person must get up and continue to stand every time the sage passes next to him in the vicinity of four cubits, and even if this happens several times a day, except for the case when he himself is not engaged in Torah at that time. In the Ashkenazi community, it is considered sufficient to do this twice a day. A sage should not inconvenience the community. Therefore, it is credited to him if he tries not to pass next to people.

6. Two sages of the Torah who study together must also stand in front of each other, or at least show signs of respect. Some write that every time it seems possible, out of respect for the Torah, it is more correct to get up.

7. Some believe that the obligation to stand before the sage also applies to a woman who is versed in the Torah, and perhaps this is also a commandment from the Torah. And also before the wife of the sage, according to some halachic authorities, there is a duty to get up from the Torah, since she has the same status as the sage. Others believe that this duty is the decree of the sages, or, according to some opinions, only a rule of conduct for a pious person.

8. You should get up only if the sage is within a radius of four cubits from the seated person, and you cannot get up earlier so that it is clearly visible that the person is getting up precisely because of this.

Likewise, out of respect for the sages of the Torah, one should get up at the sight of a sage entering the room. And even if he is not going to approach the seated one.

9. When a sage approaches a person and he gets up, he should continue to stand until the sage sits down in his place.

If the sage is not going to sit down, for example, if he is giving a lesson or praying while standing, then the one who is standing can sit down.

Note: You should also stand in front of a blind sage, despite the fact that the sage does not know about it.

How to get up

10. One should stand before the sage of the Torah so that it is clear that he is getting up precisely out of respect for him. Therefore, if at this very moment the person who stands up needed to take a book or tie a lace and he did it, there is a doubt whether he has fulfilled the commandment of honoring the sage. Therefore, after he gets up, he should sit back, and only then do what he wanted.

Likewise, if a person was going to leave: he should first sit down and only then go.

11. Some believe that one should stand up to full height, not leaning on any objects. There are, however, those who allow leaning, and therefore an old or weak person can rely on this opinion.

Who should and who shouldn't get up

12. Those who practice the Torah are also obliged to stand before the sage. However, if it interferes with his studies, then it should not. The one who sits and holds the Torah scroll should remain seated, even if he himself wanted to get up. The same rule applies to the one who holds Khumash in his hands.

There are those who believe that the groom within seven days after the wedding is not obliged to stand before the sage, since the groom is like a king.

13. During morning prayer, if a person reads Psukei de Zimra, he is obliged to stand before the sage. The halachic authorities were divided on the question of whether one should stand up while reading the Shema and the blessings associated with it.

If a person sits, dressed in a tallit and tefillin, and simply reads the Psalms, he is undoubtedly obliged to stand in front of a sage or elder passing in front of him.

14. A person engaged in any business is not obliged to interrupt his occupation and get up, but he still has to show some sign of respect.

15. In the bath or toilet there is no obligation to stand in front of the sage. But in the dressing room, this obligation remains.

There are, however, those who believe that the responsibility lies only with the one who sits in the clothes.

16. A sick person or a grieving person (God forbid) is not obliged to stand before a sage. If they themselves wanted to get up, some believe that this is their right. In any case, it would be right for them to get up a little as a sign of respect.

With regard to the blind, the opinion was divided as to whether he should stand before a sage who is not his main teacher.

Support of the sages

17. The imperative commandment from the Torah is to help the sages who practice the Torah. And this includes helping the rabbis of the communities and the ruling Alahu so that they can study the Torah of the Almighty, teach it to others and approve the laws, and this is the best fulfillment of the commandment "Tsedaka".

And a special duty is to delight them on the days of the Holidays, when the burden of Halachic issues related to the Holidays falls on them.

18. According to some opinions, even a person who cannot teach the Torah himself, but helps the sages of the Torah to teach it, is counted as if he is studying the Torah himself.

However, one who has the opportunity to learn, but is content with only supporting the sages, does not fulfill the commandment to study the Torah.

19. And the commandment to support Torah students is preferable to the commandment to write a Torah Scroll, and therefore one can sell Torah Scrolls or even synagogues in order to pay for the maintenance of the Torah sages.

And it is important that for the sake of the commandment to study the Torah, you can spend more than a fifth of your property.

20. There is a great reward for those who support the wise men in the Land of Israel, and by this he also fulfills the commandment to populate the land of Israel, because the main purpose of the commandment is to study the Torah and commandments in the Holy Land.

It is more correct, however, to spend money on supporting Torah students than on moving to the Land of Israel.

21. A special merit is the full provision of the sage with everything he needs. There are, however, those who argue that supporting a ten-person yeshiva is equally preferable, even if each of them gets a little bit.

22. The person with whom the miracle happened will separate the tsedaka as much as he can, give it to the students of the Torah, and say: “Here I am giving this tsedaka. And may it be the Will of the Almighty, so that it will be credited to me instead of the grateful sacrifice that I should have given during the time of the Temple. "

Honoring the teacher and mentor

23. A person is obliged to honor his teacher and to tremble before him, so that there is “a thrill before the teacher, like a thrill before Heaven”. And that includes the responsibility to stand in front of him, speak to him in a respectful manner, not sit in his place and not bicker with him.

In this case, we are talking about the teacher from whom he acquired most of his knowledge, even if it is a teacher who receives a monetary reward for his services.

24. It is impossible for a student to call the teacher by name, neither during his life, nor after death, both in his presence and not in front of him. It is permitted, however, to pronounce his name, adding before this the respectful "rav", "rabbi" and so on.

There are, however, those who believe that adding the word "rav" can only be done outside his presence.

25. A student who meets his teacher should ask about his well-being, but not like any other person is asked, but ask with dignity and respect: "Peace be with you, teacher", but there are those who say: "... teacher and mentor" ...

There are also those who believe that the student is not obliged to specially approach the teacher if he does not see him. Do not come before morning prayer to greet the Master.

26. Always let the teacher go ahead when they enter the room in which the mezuzah is hanging. And this also applies to synagogues and houses of study, even if the mezuzah does not hang in them.

There are also those who believe that the obligation to let the teacher pass in front of you is not only when you enter the room, but also when you leave.

27. If the teacher is accompanied by two students, then the older one should go to the right of the teacher, the younger one - to the left, and the teacher will walk in the middle. If the teacher goes with one student, then the student should not go to the right of the teacher. There are those who are allowed to go to the right of the teacher, a little further away.

28. A person is obliged to stand in front of his teacher, as soon as he sees him, even from afar, and will not sit down until he sees him or until the teacher sits down in his place.

Some believe that if the teacher is summoned to the Torah, then the student should stand all the time while the teacher is at the bima.

29. The one who comes to his teacher will not sit down until the teacher himself asks him to sit down. And he will not get up until he says to get up or until the student asks his permission. When he goes out, he must look towards the teacher.

If the teacher forgives and does not require such a reverent attitude towards himself, the student can sit down and get up at will, and then there is no obligation for him to stand up in front of the teacher. But still it is worth showing him respect and slightly standing up when the teacher passes by.

30. Sitting in front of a teacher should be respectful, as in front of a king, and one should not sit in a wagon or lie in his presence, unless the teacher has given him permission to do so, and everyone present knows about this permission.

31. A student is obliged to tremble before his teacher, therefore he will not sit in the teacher's place and will not reinforce his words in his presence or deny his words, not even in his presence.

If the student sees that the teacher is violating the words of the Torah, he must say to him with respect: "This is how the teacher taught us ..."

32. Do not ask the teacher a question immediately, as soon as he entered the house of teaching, and do not ask two students at the same time. You should also ask only what the teacher learns in this moment and do not ask more than three questions on one topic.

If a student doubts whether the teacher is knowledgeable about a given topic, do not ask him.

33. You can not go with the teacher in the bath, unless he needs the help of a student. If the student was already inside, and the teacher entered, then the student is not obliged to leave.

Where it is customary to wear swimming trunks - for example, at the sea or in the pool, the student can come with a teacher. In no case should you swim in front of the teacher.

34. You cannot pray while standing in front of the teacher or on the side of him, and, moreover, behind him, so that, God forbid, it would not seem that the student worships the teacher. But if the student stands at a distance of more than four cubits from the teacher, then you can.

There are those who believe that during public prayer it is allowed to pray from the side of the teacher.

35. It is allowed to put on tefillin in the presence of the teacher, but not take it off, unless he can take off his head tefillin without taking off his headdress.

The prohibition to argue with the teacher

36. The one who refutes the opinion of the teacher is like the one who challenges the Glory of the Most High. And it is forbidden for the student to enact the law in the presence of the teacher, unless he himself commanded him to do so.

Likewise, if a student mentions in the presence of a teacher what he once heard from him, he will say: "This is how the teacher taught us."

37. It is forbidden for a pupil to start teaching, to take pupils for himself and to order alahu without asking permission from his teacher. There are, however, those who believe that it is forbidden only if the disciple is going to establish alaha himself.

38. If the teacher has decreed that in any law of the Torah it is possible to facilitate, then it is forbidden for a student to intimidate in him in his presence, even if his intentions are in the Name of Heaven, unless he has direct evidence and confirmation that the law in this case will be another.

In practice, one should not argue with the teacher, even if the student has direct evidence of the correctness of the opposite opinion, except for the case when the student "learned a lot of wisdom and became on a par with his teacher."

39. The student is allowed to respectfully remind the teacher a line from the Gemara or Torah, which he forgot, because "forgetfulness concerns everyone."

But, again, in no case should this be done in order to compete with him in a better knowledge of books.

40. Anyone who offended his teacher or hurt him in some way is obliged to ask him for forgiveness even a hundred times, until he forgives. And this law applies to any sage of the Torah and every teacher of the Torah, and not only the one from whom he received the bulk of his knowledge, but also the one from whom he only heard some words of the Torah.

41. In some places there is a tradition to appoint a “Purim Rebbe” on Purim, who personifies the collective image-a parody of the head of the yeshiva and other teachers. At the same time, in a playful manner, for the sake of laughter and fun, he plays up their personal qualities and their characteristic behavior. This is a completely unacceptable tradition that needs to be eradicated, and this is not a "commanded joy", but nothing more than a "bunch of scoffers" for the sake of mockery and ridicule.

The duty to appear before the Master

42. A person is obliged to visit his teacher on the days of the Three Holidays: Pesach, Shvuot and Sukkot. And this duty is also fulfilled in the days of Hol ha-Moed.

According to some opinions, this duty can also be fulfilled within seven days after Shvuot.

43. There are, however, those who believe that in our time there is no obligation to visit the teacher, nevertheless, according to the opinion of many halachic authorities, in our time this obligation has even increased.

There is also the question of whether this duty can be fulfilled by phone calls before or after the Holiday.

44. The duty of a woman, in this case, is the same as that of a man. And if she has her own teacher, one should go to him. In any case, a married woman can only go if her husband agrees.

45. A man is commanded to stay at home on the Holidays and make his wife and children happy. There are, however, those who consider the well-established tradition to leave household members even for a few days in order to appear before their teacher.

46. ​​If the teacher lives in the Land of Israel, and the student is outside the Land of Israel, or vice versa, then it is not clear whether in this case there is a duty to visit the teacher also on the second Yom Tov, or it concerns only the first Yom Tov, which is considered a festive one. all over the world.

Veneration after death

47. A person is obliged to show respect for his teacher even after his death. Therefore, if the teacher, God forbid, died, then the student must tear his clothes, as stipulated in this case by the law, and he has no right to sew up the gap. He becomes obliged in some other laws relating to the bereaved.

Anyone who mentions his teacher within twelve months of his death should add: "And I am the redemption of his peace."

From the magazine "The World of Torah"

Under respect we understand respectful treatment of a person, based on the recognition of his merits.

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"What is decent is worthy of respect, and what is worthy of respect is always decent."

Cicero

“First of all, do not lose your self-respect!”

Pythagoras

"Never enter into friendship with a person you cannot respect."

C. Darwin

“There is no respect for me that is dearer than the respect of a person whom I myself most deserve respect.”

Apuleius

"To own oneself enough to respect others as oneself, and to act with them as we want to be treated with us - that is what can be called philanthropy."

Confucius

"Respect for others gives rise to respect for yourself."
R. Descartes

"From respect to contempt, one step."

"MudMys"

"A person can rarely make him love himself, but he can always make him respect himself."

B. Fontenelle

"Respect yourself if you want to be respected."

B. Gracian y Morales

"Who respects himself inspires respect for others."

Vovenargue

"We are happy only when we feel that we are respected."

B. Pascal

"True disrespect is disrespect for someone else's god."

M. Twain

"He who is easily inclined to lose respect for others does not respect himself in the first place."

F. Dostoevsky

"The secret to successful parenting lies in respect for the student."

R. Emerson

The respect of contemporaries is preferable to the admiration of posterity. "

Buast

"It is not proper for a decent person to pursue universal respect: let it come to him by itself and, so to speak, against his will."

N. Shamfort

"Conscious respect is always stronger than passion."

D. Pisarev

"Not always a fluffy hat covers a head worthy of respect."

T. Fuller

"Respect for people is respect for oneself."

J. Galsworthy

"Those who are respected, they are never flattering, because respect honors, flattery mocks."

Publius

"Decent people respect us for our dignity, and the crowd - for the favor of fate."

La Rochefoucauld

"Nothing is lost so easily as respect: slander and slander steal it in secret."

Buast

We should respect not only those who are above us, but especially those who think that we are above him. ”

Inayat Khan Hidayat

Disrespect for ancestors is the first sign of immorality. "

A.S. Pushkin

"All people should mutually respect each other"

Mm de Stael

"Most people respect what they don't understand."

Malebranche

"People are sometimes respected for things that they should be most blamed for."

"Ridicule kills respect."

Buast

"Respect is a tribute to excellence"

Aliber

"Respect of a person for a person is the basis of morality."

Godwin

"By despising the one you loved, you insult yourself."

F. Beigbeder

“The foolish one expresses contempt for his neighbor; but a reasonable person is silent. "

Proverbs (Bible)

“Poverty is not unbearable, contempt. I can do without everything, but I don't want anyone to know about it. "

"Only those who deserve it are afraid of contempt."

F. La Rochefoucauld

"I despise those whose brains cannot fill their stomachs."

"Whom you fear you do not despise."

F. Dostoevsky

"Contempt is a slap in the face from a distance."

“He who has lived and thought cannot
In my heart do not despise people. "

To respect every person as oneself, and to act with him as we wish to be treated with us, there is nothing higher than this.

Confucius

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Respect for others gives rise to respect for oneself.

Rene Descartes

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Self-esteem is not as judgmental as a lack of self-respect.

William Shakespeare

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Respect each other, not forgetting that the wise strength of the builder is hidden in each person and that it needs to be given the will to develop and flourish.

Maksim Gorky

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Respect for people is respect for oneself.

John Galsworthy

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One who is easily inclined to lose respect for others does not respect himself in the first place.

Fedor Mikhailovich Dostoevsky

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When men are disrespectful to a woman, it almost always shows that she was the first to forget herself in her treatment of them.

Denis Diderot

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Respect yourself if you want to be respected.

Baltasar Gracian y Morales

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Respect is an outpost that protects the father and mother, as well as a brainchild, the former it saves from grief, the latter from remorse.

Honore de Balzac

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Love without respect is short-lived and fickle, respect without love is cold and weak.

Benjamin Johnson

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Leonardo da Vinci

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There is no respect for me dearer than the respect of a person whom I myself most deserve respect.

Apuleius

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Young people should not be looked down upon. It is very possible that, having matured, they will become outstanding husbands. Only the one who has not achieved anything, having lived to forty or fifty years, does not deserve respect.

Confucius

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It is not fitting for a decent person to pursue universal respect: let it come to him by itself and, so to speak, against his will.

Nicola Sebastian Chamfort

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No one can be happy if they do not enjoy their own respect.

Jean Jacques Rousseau

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We must not forget the old rule: who wants to be treated with respect by others, he must first of all respect himself.

Nikolay Semenovich Leskov

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We are happy only when we feel that we are respected.

Blaise Pascal

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A person who considers himself to be nothing can have any respect for others and in both cases manifests the baseness of thoughts.

Nikolay Ivanovich Novikov

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Conscious respect is always stronger than passion.

Dmitry Ivanovich Pisarev

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Respect for women is a duty that every honest person must obey from birth.

Lope de Vega

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We show respect only as much as it is demanded.

Respect has boundaries, but love has no boundaries.

Those who drink water should remember those who dug the well.

Respect for people is respect for oneself.

Who respects himself inspires respect for others.

Respect for women is a duty that every honest person must obey from birth.

Mutual respect for each other's personal space is almost love.

Everyone, whoever he may be and no matter how humiliated he may be, even instinctively, even unconsciously, nevertheless demands respect for his human dignity.

Genius is surprising, but character inspires respect. Brilliant people act on the mind, people with character - on the conscience. And if they revere the first, then they follow the second.

Crazy thoughts of respect

Respect must be shown on both sides.

Let's respect our adversaries for the same motives that we claim ourselves.

Philosophers mad thoughts about respect

The big question is whether the savages respect the European who himself descends to the level of a savage.

The Jewish religion insists on respect, while the Christian religion insists on love. Here I am thinking: is not respect a feeling more fundamental than love? And in addition, more real ... To love your enemy, as Jesus suggests, and, having received a slap in the face, turn the other cheek - this is, of course, delightful, but not applicable in practice. And yet, can love be a duty? Can you order your heart? I do not think. But in the opinion of the great rabbis, respect is an ongoing duty. This already seems possible to me. I can respect those I don’t love or those I don’t care about. But love them? And besides, is there a need for me to love them if I respect them?

We would not seek universal respect so much if we knew firmly that we were worthy of it.

Who is strong, be kind, so that you are respected and not feared.

People adorned with virtues immediately recognize, distinguish, guess each other; if you want to be respected, only deal with people who deserve respect.

A happy marriage is not when in the seventh year family life they climb into your window with a bouquet in their teeth, and when you are respected every second and do not walk on your spiritual territory.

Old age cannot be happiness. Old age can only be peace or trouble. She becomes calm when she is respected. Oblivion and loneliness make her a misfortune.

Respecting people means respecting each and every one of them, not just those you want to impress.

The service rendered to us is pleasant mainly because it flatters our vanity and testifies to the good disposition and respect for us who rendered it.

Laughable frenzied thoughts of respect

It happens that I haven't had a drink with anyone yet, but they already respect you.

When men are disrespectful to a woman, it almost always shows that she was the first to forget herself in her treatment of them.

Politeness is a symbolically conditional expression of respect for every person.

To have control of ourselves enough to respect others as ourselves, and to act with them as we want to be treated with us - that is what can be called philanthropy.

A marriage in which one of the spouses does not love or respect the other cannot be happy. For nobody.

I think that respect for heroes, which manifests itself in different eras in different ways, is the soul public relations between people and that the manner in which this respect is expressed is the true measure of the normality or abnormality of prevailing relationships.

They usually do not contradict those whom they love most and those who are least respected.

We must not forget the old rule: whoever wants to be treated with respect by others, he must first of all respect himself.

Disrespect for other people's merits is a crime.

In familiar places, a person is respected, in unfamiliar places - a fur coat.

Whatever you say, but human dignity is recognized even in nature. Wanting to drive the birds away from fruit trees, they put a scarecrow, and even the remote resemblance of this scarecrow to a person is enough to inspire respect.

He who does not respect himself is unhappy, but he who is too pleased with himself is stupid.

If we are very upset by someone's contempt, it means that we would be especially pleased with the respect of this particular person.

Piercing thoughts of respect

He left the cockroach where he was, out of respect for the dead.

Lack of self-respect is the source of as many vices as of excessive self-respect.

The secret of successful parenting lies in respect for the student.

We show respect only as much as it is demanded.

Respect the delusions of others as your own.

Love cannot be without respect.

Do you respect me. I respect you. We are dear people.

If we do not respect the same pursuit of happiness in others, they resist and interfere with our pursuit of happiness.

Love and respect for parents, without any doubt, is a sacred feeling.

We are happy only when we feel that we are respected.

If you want respect, don't start with an insult.

The morality of nations depends on respect for women.

There is nothing on earth more worthy of respect than intelligence.

Free institutions are good when they are with people who respect themselves, and therefore respect their duty, the duty of a citizen.

No one can be happy if they do not enjoy their own respect.

Immense mad thoughts of respect /

Those who rule over minds by the power of righteousness, and not those who make slaves by violence, deserve our reverence.

Duty is respect for the right of another.

It is impossible for a person to live honestly and at the same time in abundance and respect.

It's all about respect: you need to respect this world and the people around you, then you can expect reciprocity.

People show their disrespect for others in different ways, for example, carelessness in dress, untidiness, bad habits, and all this will be impolite.

A person can rarely force to love himself, but he can always force to respect himself.

A person who is arrogant and arrogant in society usually achieves a result that is exactly the opposite of what he is counting on - if, of course, he is counting on respect.

To see and respect a man in a woman is not only a necessary, but also the main condition of love for a decent man of our time.

Real self-respect is about not thinking about yourself.

There is no respect for me dearer than the respect of a person whom I myself most deserve respect.

Respect and love are capitals that must be placed somewhere. Therefore, they are usually conceded on credit.

Respect is an outpost that protects father and mother, as well as a brainchild; it saves the former from grief, the latter from remorse.

The Jester of Respect encourages you to respect your spirit and your personality. However, do not abuse arrogance or narcissistic conceit, drop the egocentric point of view; acknowledge that all people are divine and holy in nature. You have to perceive others from this point of view. Now is the time to end the endless and stupid ridicule, slander and criticism. Respect human life and remember that although people face and struggle with obstacles, they are worthy of love and respect no matter what serious mistakes they make.

Ask yourself: are you perhaps too negative or superficial about everything? Who doesn't enjoy your respect? Who do you disapprove of? How about respect from others? Do you respect yourself? Are you behaving respectfully, do you like the manner in which you treat yourself and others?

The Fool of Respect reminds you that if you are going to develop as a divine creative being, you must first accept and observe your true character. Judging others as unworthy is a stupid mistake that chains you to wrong opinions and limited concepts. Be free, self-reliant, refrain from harsh judgments, and express love and respect.

Be patient as well. Some things don't happen as quickly as you would like, and this causes frustration and even resentment and doubt. Don't let doubt creep into you, instead relax and let things unfold like that. how it should be. Respect natural order and the divine timing of all things that happen. Never stop believing and trust your place in the universe. Breathe and be calm. Things are good.

Jester's Wisdom: Respect the natural flow.

Completely changed value

The Fool of Respect doesn't hear you. Respect is something to earn; you cannot demand it from others. To earn it, you must behave appropriately. It means speaking the truth, being accountable for your actions, and behaving with dignity, decency, and courtesy. Self-esteem is the most vital important quality... To gain respect from others, you must respect yourself. This is achievable when healthy boundaries exist in your relationship with others. Speak up when you have to speak, speak the truth with love and courage, for granted.

In what situation did you disrespect yourself? Where are your boundaries weak? In what situations can you say yes when you really mean no? Do you feel inappropriate about your health? Are you treating your mind inappropriately? Are you treating your spirit in an inappropriate way, thereby diminishing your honesty? Remember that you will not get the respect you seek by agreeing to things that belittle you.

Work together with your self. Pause and reflect on your choice. Do you honor yourself? To succeed in life, you need self-esteem above all else. Don't try to get the approval of those who don't respect you. The respect that you desire from others will be with you, do not hesitate. Remember, first of all, you need to be true to yourself.

Jester warning:

Honor not only yourself but others as well.