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Natural microflora of the human body and its meaning. Age features of microflora. Manipulation of emotions and how to protect yourself from them They are invariably connected

Asceticism is the voluntary acceptance of physical or psychological discomfort, as well as the efforts and efforts that we put into it. It is important to understand that humility and ease will be a guarantee of success. That is, if you do something for show, constantly complain about your difficult fate, then this is no longer austerity.

It came to us from ancient Greece. Formed from the Greek word asketes, which translated into Russian means - one who exercises. The concept in antiquity meant the preparation of Olympic athletes for competition. They went on a rigid diet, practiced until the seventh sweat to achieve a good result. Athletes deprived themselves of comfortable living conditions, because the desire to be the first was much stronger. Subsequently, the concept received a broader interpretation: it meant the desire for a decent life, the fight against vices.

Distinguish between male and female austerities. For the stronger sex, they are invariably associated with deprivation. A man is obliged to work hard, actively engage in sports, wake up early, douse himself with cold water, limit himself in nutrition, and so on. Austerities for women are aimed at shaping character. A girl should be kind, flexible, humble, she is obliged to do all household chores with love and joy.

The main types of asceticism

Regardless of gender, they are divided into three main groups:

  1. Body austerities. This includes proper nutrition, moderate exercise, control of passions, cleanliness of clothes, body care, and pilgrimage. They need to be done so as not to harm the body in any way. Self-torture has nothing to do with austerity, which implies a natural state that brings joy and satisfaction.
  2. Ascetic speech. This is truthfulness, honesty, objectivity of judgments. You cannot criticize, slander, lie, interrupt, shout, and so on. A person must be able to listen and take into account the opinions of other people.
  3. Austerities of the mind. Includes control of emotions and feelings, contemplation, self-education, scripture reading, introspection, respectful attitude towards elders, pacification of pride.

As already mentioned, the fair sex usually observes spiritual austerities. For women, the main thing is to achieve harmony inner peace... But if a girl wants to adhere to bodily austerities, this is only welcome.

What can be achieved?

Any austerity for a woman must be effective. That is, its implementation must bear fruit, and certainly positive. Buddhists say that if you do everything right, from a pure heart, without selfish thoughts, you can achieve:

  • Burning negative karma.
  • Converting coarse energy into subtle, the effect of which is beneficial. Thanks to this, the potential of a person increases, the supply of vitality increases.
  • Receiving spiritual or material benefits: power, money, marriage proposals, blessings of the gods.

Sages say that if we give something, then according to the laws of the Universe we must receive compensation. Performing asceticism, depriving ourselves for some time of the usual benefits, we not only cleanse the body and soul of energy waste, but we also dare to hope for the reward of heaven in the form of a happy lottery ticket or a random profitable acquaintance. At the same time, the value of the "prize" largely depends on the level and depth of the asceticism being performed.

Asceticism helping to get married

It is, of course, nice to receive material rewards. But the dream of most women is not aimed at wealth - girls usually just want to successfully marry a single and beloved one. Therefore, the eastern sages have developed special austerities for women. What are these tips? First of all, they relate to the behavior and character of the young lady. For example, Buddhists are sure that communicating with married girls, being in an atmosphere of family and children, she several times increases her chances of becoming a wife.

This process is similar to when we, being in the middle of a fragrant lavender field, ourselves gradually become saturated with this wonderful scent. The same thing happens with the subtle body of a person - it is saturated with the emotions and energy of people with whom he closely communicates. And therefore, when such a girl walks down the street, potential candidates for a hand and heart at the subconscious level catch the scent of an aura that smells like a cozy home. Therefore, the main austerity for a woman is to spend the maximum amount of time in the circle of happy married women.

Help

What does it mean: a woman needs to undergo some kind of austerity? To interpret this is quite simple: a girl is obliged to follow a number of rules, while not forcing herself, but doing it of her own free will. Therefore, before you start, think carefully, accept this fact in order to get used to it and then not suffer. Although women's asceticism cannot be called difficult, it is a model of behavior for a normal, respectable person. For example, helping others. The common thing that many do several times every day really helps to get married.

There are many homeless, poor, disadvantaged and hungry people in the world. These are not only old people and children, but also animals. By feeding a mongrel on the street, buying a medicine for a child or bringing food from the market to a disabled neighbor, the young lady learns to be compassionate. She becomes merciful, thus clearing karma from impurities that prevent her from gaining personal happiness. As a result, the woman receives the blessing of the Almighty himself for a long and harmonious marriage.

Chastity

The austerities for women to get married are sometimes quite difficult to accomplish. Nowadays, it is almost impossible to maintain chastity before marriage: modern girls begin to think about family not earlier than 25 years old. Sometimes they decide to take such a step only after a career has been successfully built, and this usually happens at the age of 30-35. It is doubtful that the joys of intimacy can be ignored until then. In addition, this will negatively affect the health of the woman.

Although if the lady is lucky to perform this austerity, she will be rewarded a hundredfold. The power of her attractiveness in the eyes of a man will increase: he will definitely want to marry a pure and modest young lady. When it was not possible to maintain chastity, the girl must purify her subtle body with the help of prayers, meditations, and special techniques to cut off former attachments. You can write letters to ex-guys in which you need to let go of feelings, blessing men for a new relationship, sincerely wishing them happiness and thanking them for past joys.

Harmonious connections

Like all other austerities for women, this one also provides for a change in behavior in relation to their surroundings. The girl should establish harmonious communication with family and friends, colleagues and neighbors. All previously broken connections must be restored. You need to start with your parents. Know: if the relationship with your mother is good, and constant conflicts arise with your father, it will be difficult to get married. Therefore, if dad is alive, immediately go to him, ask for forgiveness and try to revive the old warm feelings and build a new family model. In a parent you need to see a noble and reasonable man, accept him and love him with all your heart.

When a young lady takes offense at her own mother, she has no chance of becoming a good wife. Therefore, in this case, reconciliation is necessary like air. Know that these are very important austerities for women. Getting over anger, suppressing aggression and anger is sometimes difficult. But, having done this, you cleanse yourself from the inside, open your energy channels. Feeling karmic impulses, men will be drawn into your society.

Donations

Buddhists believe that by performing this ritual, a girl is able to attract the attention of any chosen one. Since marriage is associated with Venus, flowers should be worn to the temple every Friday. This day of the week is under the auspices of the planet. The number of weeks depends on the age plus one more year. For example, you are 20 years old: 20 + 1 = 21 - this is exactly how many Fridays in a row you should perform the bouquet ritual. It is desirable to offer flowers to a female deity: in Christian churches this is the Virgin Mary.

Sacrificial austerities for women are also associated with cows, which are under the tutelage of Venus. Animals need to be fed or periodically allocated money to purchase for them tasty food... Also, give up eating their meat, because the Vedas say: "Kind and noble is the one who protects the cows." Therefore, God himself will help such people. Girls who want to get married are advised to hang pictures of an animal around the house or buy a lot of "cow" soft toys.

Prayers

What austerities should a woman perform? You can resort to prayer. Turning to the higher powers, the girl sincerely asks them to give her luck in her personal life. It is better to carry out the ritual in the morning at sunrise. It is during this period that it is also recommended to do yoga and auto-training - all these exercises together will not only charge you with positive energy for the whole day, but also sow the grain of confidence that you will meet a soul mate.

Be sure to ask the Almighty for strength and patience in order to love even the most hateful things for you: washing, cleaning, ironing. When you convince yourself that household chores are easy, and even fun and enjoyable, men will begin to feel it. Since each of them seeks to find an excellent mistress for their family nest, the choice will clearly be in your favor. Take care of yourself: visit a beautician, go in for sports, do not spare money on beautiful clothes. Love yourself - and men will carry you in their arms.

The man who privatized Russia and created a new class of billionaire oligarchs in recent times appears in public infrequently. I met him in a separate office of the elite restaurant "Graf Orlov", after his guard had thoroughly checked the premises for a security threat ...

"Father of billionaires", he himself is only a millionaire. He is not included in the top 100 richest people in Russia, although he is quite well-to-do compared to most Russians - last year his income statement indicated an amount of $ 1 million. Even the most evil tongues admit that Chubais did not engage in privatization in Russia for personal gain.

"Chubais is a Bolshevik, and people of his type work for an idea, not for bribes," one oligarch told me ...

Not that he is unaware of the risks involved, but he is more resilient to risks and dangers than most people.

"I know about at least three orders for my murder. I know all the details, the names of those who were supposed to carry them out. The last such order was made a year and a half ago. He had purely political motives: hatred because I “sold Russia.” When every day, returning home, you admit that a murderer with an anti-tank grenade launcher might be around the corner, the perception of political risks changes. Yes, perhaps today the share of risk is several percent higher than in 2000. But in 1992-1999 the risk was several times greater. "

To lift his spirits, he orders a bottle of wine. He knows that our newspaper must pay for the cost of lunch, but since he has not privatized it, he does not jump to conclusions about its welfare. He politely asks, "Is it okay if I order a 1995 Chateau Potensac for $ 120 a bottle?" This is one of the least expensive wines on the restaurant's menu, and I do justice to Chubais' tact and manners. The restaurant ran out of oysters, so we settle for vegetable salad, and then Chubais orders osso bucco (meat on the bone), and I - lamb ribs.

Chubais counts among his achievements not only the fact that he created a class of private owners in Russia after 70 years of communism. More important for him is the destruction of the financial basis of the communist regime as such. "We understood very well that we were creating a new class of property owners. Privatization was not a matter of ideology or some abstract values, it was a matter of real political daily struggle."

“The communist leaders had tremendous power - political, administrative, financial. They were invariably connected with the Communist Party.

“We could not choose between 'fair' and 'dishonest' privatization, because fair privatization presupposes clear rules set by a strong state that can enforce laws. In the early 1990s, we had no state, no law and order. and the police were on the other side of the barricades. They studied under the Soviet Criminal Code, which is three to five years in prison for private entrepreneurship. We had to choose between gangster communism and gangster capitalism. "

Chubais does not apologize or regret that he was the author of the most controversial privatization process of all: the loans-for-shares auctions, in which the most valuable and largest Russian assets were transferred to a group of tycoons in exchange for loans and the support of then-seriously ill Yeltsin in the 1996 elections.

To tell you the truth, the oligarchs would have supported Yeltsin anyway. But Chubais insists that by handing over control of factories with hundreds of thousands of workers to them, he gave them a real administrative resource so that they could influence the outcome of the elections, while destroying the main pillar of communism.

"We had no choice. If we had not carried out the pledge privatization, the communists would have won the elections in 1996, and this would have been the last free elections in Russia, because these guys do not give up power so easily."

A Communist victory, among other things, would have cost Chubais his life. "I was one of the main targets of the communists after Yeltsin." Ironically, soon after Yeltsin's victory, Chubais became one of the main targets of the oligarchs, who got rid of him because he refused to play by their rules.

My guess is that the pledge privatization was a Faust-worthy deal, and its consequences haunt Russia to this day. "At the time, I did not quite understand what price we would have to pay," Chubais says. "I underestimated the deep sense of injustice that originated in people."

“We completed privatization in 1997-1998. Five years later, people still deny all rational arguments that the oligarchs not only stole these enterprises, but made them more efficient, began to invest in them, pay salaries on time, that taxes that money from them to the budget, help to pay pensions. But most people do not want to hear this, because the feeling of injustice of privatization has strengthened on a subconscious level. "

Chubais says this is one of the reasons the Union of Right Forces, the liberal-conservative party he co-founded, lost parliamentary elections last year. It also explains why the democrats in Russia are associated with poverty in the country, and why the arrest of Khodorkovsky and the attack on Yukos are applauded by millions of ordinary Russians who see it as a well-deserved punishment.

"The institution of private property is not just a set of laws or a class of property owners with real power. It is 146 million people who must agree that private property is sacred. I doubt we can come to this in a generation."

When the waiter brings tea with honey, I ask Chubais if he does not find that capitalism is not suitable for Russia, with its popular hatred of the rich and belief in the moral superiority of the poor.

“You know, I have re-read Dostoevsky in the last three months. And I have an almost physical hatred of this man. offers make me want to rip it to pieces. "

“At the beginning of our reforms, some of my opponents argued that because of the age-old traditions of Russia, capitalism is less suitable for it than for Europe. Perhaps. But what choice do we have in the economy? Central planning, socialism? Thank you, we have already seen this. Capitalism it is probably more difficult to establish in Russia, but I am convinced that this is the only way. Market values ​​have already taken root here, and economic growth is proof of this. "

“My opponents say that privatization failed, that it was directed against the interests of the people. But I did not do it for the sake of the people of my generation, I did it for the sake of our children. I am convinced that in one or two generations people will look at us differently and feel injustice from those who come for us will disappear. "

He drives off in his black armored BMW with a blue flashing light, accompanied by another car. I recall the last lines from "Three Sisters" by Chekhov - another who did not agree with Dostoevsky: "Time will pass and we will leave forever, they will forget us, our faces, voices and how many of us were those who will live after us, happiness and peace will come on earth, and will remember with a kind word and bless those who live now. "

(Prepared on the basis of materials from the site "Inopressa". Reprinted
with minor reductions.)

Culture

"Everything is better than lies and deceit!" Lev Tolstoy

How could I believe this? How could you be such a fool? Why do people believe this outright lie ? How did they manage to turn us around like that?

Each of us is surrounded by people, some of whom have very good skills in manipulating other people's emotions.

Especially in his youth, a person is inclined to believe that he certainly not susceptible to psychological attacks that manipulate consciousness, mislead and instill strange ideas.

However, as we mentally mature, we begin to realize that we are also part of a society that affects us, that we are ordinary people with our own human desires and weaknesses.

A person, to one degree or another, succumbs to manipulations from the outside precisely because he shares for himself psychological characteristics. And everyone does it differently.

Therefore, someone, due to their inclinations, is more susceptible to manipulation, and someone is less, while the latter, at times, are able to withstand even the most powerful manipulations.

But some believe that a person is inherently immune to manipulation. It is extremely erroneous delusion and the surest way to become a victim. Here's a very striking example:

Manipulation of people

Imagine that today is November 18, 1978. You are in the capital of Guyana, Johnstown, and you are a follower of a cult "Temple of the Nations" by Jim Jones.

He gives you the order to commit suicide by drinking a drink poisoned with cyanide. What will you do in this situation? Of course, you will not drink this drink.

Jim Jones

Does anyone have the right to order another person to take his own life? You are not a robot that obeys such orders without question!

But, 907 followers of this cult on that fateful day they took a deadly sip, and perished ... However, many of them poisoned their own children before committing suicide.

But in reality, all the victims wanted to live, they wanted their relatives and friends to live.

But what made them do such an act? What caused so many adult men and women, many of whom had higher education, let Jones brainwash themselves so badly for so many years?

Why did they sell their houses and give absolutely everything to the sect, which, obviously, was the "Temple of the Nations"?

Maybe the intellectual abilities of these people were too low, or they were insane? Or could the leader perfectly manipulate human emotions?

Probably, he knew which buttons to press , and used this until he brought people to such a state that they, having killed their children, committed suicide themselves.

Some might think that this was a solitary incident that didn't exist anymore. And it will be greatly mistaken. Throughout history, there have been several such "Johnstowns". And, perhaps, they will happen again.

Probably, the scheme was or will be different, but the manipulation mechanism remained / will remain unchanged. The man always takes the last step himself.

Only by understanding the system of manipulation work, you can protect yourself from them. Moreover, we are talking not only about the impact of destructive cults on you, but also about the psychological processing imperceptible to the ordinary eye, with which we regularly encounter in everyday life.

Secrets of manipulation

Jim Jones was one hundred percent master of the art of deception. He expertly lied to people, giving them what they thought was exactly what they needed. This is the most important thing to understand.

Each of us has deep needs. If they are not satisfied, then, if the person is not aware of what exactly is happening to him, and cannot respond appropriately to it, he has a desire to find the source, which will give what he needs, or at least create the appearance of it.

Basic human needs

Basic human needs include:

1) Safe life and work;

2) Having a sense of power over your life, self-sufficiency;

3) The presence of self-esteem, which appears due to the ability to solve problems and conquer new heights;

4) The presence of a group of like-minded people;

5) Mandatory presence of a certain status in your social group (a sense of respect or importance);

6) Having a sense of emotional attachment to certain people (family, friends);

7) Having a purpose and meaning in life, the ability to change something with your actions.

If any of the above is not satisfied, then the person may well feel the strongest attachment to any public organization or to some person who will at least hint at the possibility of satisfaction.

However, if you are aware of what exactly is happening to you, you can insulate yourself from a large number of problems in the future.

Consciousness manipulation

Most of Jim Jones' followers are this is a mass of people who have become disillusioned with their lives. They were either completely dissatisfied with it, or tried to satisfy their urgent needs in strange and unhealthy ways.

These were people with a vague future, whose life turned into black stripe... They suffered from low self-esteem, negative attitudes towards themselves, etc.

For joining the sect, their "god" Jones promised them social acceptance, a purpose in life, like-minded people and a sense of security. And it worked. Something in their souls responded, and they followed Jones to certain death.

A person from the outside will immediately notice if some need of another is not satisfied, or that satisfaction does not occur at the proper level.

One day it may be noticed by someone who starts offering "all-in-one". Moreover, the offer may seem very tempting to you.

Surely there are people who disagree with this. But imagine this. Try to transfer the situation to a household level.

Each of us has a friend who, not receiving proper satisfaction in his marriage, enters into a dubious relationship on the side solely because he wants to be heard, he wants romance, emotions, etc.

It is this kind of subconscious desire that makes a person join a sect, or pushes him into the hands of another pseudopsychologist.

Making excuses for misbehavior

There is no such person who does not love Attention to your own person. Each of us needs it, and each achieves it in a variety of ways.

But to satisfy this thirst, we often tend to close your eyes to the unworthy aspects of those individuals or organizations from which we receive that very attention.

However, the power of our emotional needs is so great that it sometimes attracts consciousness to its aid, which provides powerful, logical arguments that support our desire to do something wrong.

The followers of the "Temple of the Nations" definitely created a base of such arguments for themselves, which made them Trust Jones 100% and stay in his sect.

After all, of course, it's easy to say: "How could you be such a fool?" However, such incredible cases as the Jones cult clearly show how, in an instant, a human desire to satisfy their needs turns mostly intelligent people into a driven herd of animals.

This desire can completely stifle all reasonable arguments. But only if a person himself allows him to control his consciousness. This is comparable to dying in the desert of thirst, who will gladly drink the ice poison if offered.

The power of manipulation and influence

Robert Cialdini, a renowned social psychologist, has conducted a number of studies on why people agree to or buy something.

He developed several principles, "weapons of influence". Despite the fact that he mostly explored the business world, the principles he found can be applied equally well to any type of relationship in which they try to manipulate you.

When analyzing, one can notice a clear connection between the principles of Cialdini and the basic needs of a person.

How to influence people

Weapons of Influence:

-- Responsiveness

"But how much he did for me!" When a person realizes that he is obliged to someone, he immediately falls under the influence of the law of response.

The God of the "Temple of the Nations" regularly reminded people how much the cult had done for them, how he saved them, and that now they belong to the "Temple".

If someone repeats to you with enviable regularity how much he does for you, then know that they are trying to manipulate you.

Whether it’s free samples on sale or unsolicited favors, remember that everything is done with the expectation of later making you do what someone wants.

- Persistence and involvement

When a person publicly, orally or in writing, promises to do something, most likely he will fulfill his promise. People love to appear responsible and consistent in the eyes of other people.

Therefore, for no reason at all, it seems incredible for many of us to stop following orders or get rid of old beliefs, despite the fact that there is an endless amount of evidence that our belief is a commonplace fraud.

- Social pressure

If a person sees how many people around him are involved in the same business, he also begins to do this. As a rule, there is only one argument: "Can't so many people be delusional!" or "What's the big deal if everyone is doing this?"

It is this type of thinking that creates people - victims of a cult or victims of fashion.

It is worth noting that such situations, as a rule, are always confusing and ambiguous, because their basis is not exclusively our blindness.

Hundreds of thousands of years ago, in order not to die in the world of predators, people gathered in close social groups and watched other groups looking for features of behavior in them that helped them to survive.

To a certain extent, this is still useful to this day, however, manipulators, of whom there are many among us, have learned to use this feature for their own benefit.

A person is inclined to obey powerful personalities, even if the latter talk about what goes against the law or does not coincide with the personal beliefs of the individual.

Unfortunately, life often confronts us with powerful personalities of all "formats".

- Charisma

A person is much more willing to give in to persuasion, and then manipulation, if they are led by people who are pleasant to him. The problem is discovered later.

Often such people can do things that you don't like at all. Cialdini has skilfully shown that we prefer to shop from people we like, or to buy what the people we like get.

Moreover, a person is inclined to love more the one who likes him outwardly. Therefore, it is no coincidence that cult and sect leaders tend to be attractive and charismatic.

-- A lack of

A person is built like this: if it seems to him that some product or service is in short supply, then the demand for it begins to grow at an accelerated pace. This principle is very actively exploited in the field of sales.

Each of us has probably seen: "Only for the first hundred buyers!", "Limited offer", "Limited stocks", etc.

The manipulator also uses this principle, but with a slightly different approach: "You will never meet a person like me again."

Surely this is a slightly different side this approach, but the essence is the same - the manipulator is supposedly an exceptional person who is very valuable to you.

Jim Jones often used to say that the "Temple of the Nations" is a unique place where man will be saved... Any of the similar cults has a similar slogan, created for the purpose of manipulation.

Anti-manipulation protection

How do you protect yourself?

What can we do to save ourselves from the manipulations that surround us, both in the person of individuals and in the form of entire organizations? Here are some tips:

1. You must understand that too emotional promises to give you something, or the same threats about the loss of something, as a rule, are standard ways of managing our behavior.

2. Always remember that if your basic needs are not met, then you become much more vulnerable to the person who is willing to take advantage of your insecurity.

However, if you understand your problem, then this already gives you some degree of protection, not allowing you to become a victim.

3. Pay attention to how the weapons of influence that Cialdini spoke of are being used around you every day, even if for good purposes. And how they invariably relate to basic human needs.

4. Try to stay calm, don't fuss and breathe deeply. When your mind is calm, you can look at things much more objectively.

To summarize, it is important to remind you that you need to live the way you want, and not go with the flow. Look for ways change what you don't like, not excuses why it doesn't work.

Get inspired and encouraged, but don't be manipulated. Work for the sake of the result, not in order to prove something to someone.

Listen to your inner voice, not the selfish opinions of others. If suddenly it seems to you that someone wants to manipulate you, then remember that you are not alone, so try to find the answer both on your own and based on the experience of other people.

There are many manipulators in the world who strive to brainwash us, but it is not so difficult to protect ourselves from their influence. The main thing is to be aware of what is happening to you.

The territory on which the glorious city of Aldan will emerge in the future has been inhabited since time immemorial. At first, the nomadic tribes of the Evenks took a fancy to this territory. Here they were able to settle for many years and engage in reindeer husbandry, fishing and hunting. The inhabitants of the tribe often found pieces of gold in the river near their settlements, but of great importance they did not attach to it, and tried to keep silent about these facts.

A miracle is located - a town on the Aldan Highlands, in the basin of the mountain river Aldan (the right tributary of the Lena). The city itself, like the entire Aldan region, is located on the legendary Aldan tectonic shield. Prehistoric crystalline formations of various rocks and igneous rocks with an average age of more than 3 billion years come to the surface.

There are various versions of the origin of the original name of the city. But all of them are invariably associated with the Turkic and Mongolian languages. In the language of the nomads, this word means gold. Although the Evenks have a term that is similar in sound - aldun, meaning a rocky place or a magnificent place. It is difficult to say what exactly from this became the primary source. After all, both are very similar to the truth.

It was from this city that the exploration and development of all Yakutia began in the twenties of the last century. It all started with the fact that a simple Yakut, a free prospector Mikhail Taraburkin learned about the possible content of gold in the waters of the Orto-Sale River. In the spring of 1923, he arrived in this area with his group and set up camp in the upper reaches of the river.

The very first flushing showed the presence of gold particles. Immediately after that, Taraburkin laid a mine at this place, and was recognized as the discoverer of gold deposits in this area. From that moment on, the so-called "Russian gold rush" began. The mine was called "unchanged", after which and locality began to be called the same. The area had this name until 1932. By the decision of the Soviet government, the actively developing village was officially recognized as a city and was named Aldan.

City Day is celebrated on December 19. It was on this day in 1992 that a train first arrived at the Aldan station. This event became the impetus for the city to develop and grow even faster. That is why it was so long-awaited and joyful. The history of the city is associated not only with significant victories in the field of gold mining, which forms more than 50% of the district's income, but also with other achievements of the townspeople.

In years Patriotic War most of the population fought bravely for our homeland. Seven people were awarded the title of Hero Soviet Union... The streets of the city are named in honor of these great soldiers, and a monument to all defenders of the Motherland is erected in the center of Aldan.

In Aldan, the climate is sharply continental, but at the same time it is much more pleasant than in Yakutsk: in winter it is much warmer in the town, and in summer it blows cool, rainfall is three times more. Winter is quite cold, which is especially pleasant for winter sports enthusiasts, with small and temporary temperature fluctuations. There is no thaw from December to February. During this period, it is better to activate those who like winter fishing.

Hotels in Aldan are open all year round and are ready to receive tourists. Due to the rather sharp changes in altitude in mountainous areas, people with increased meteosensitivity may experience discomfort. Summers are quite capricious, sometimes dry, sometimes rainy. The water level in rivers during the rainy season in some areas rises by 5 meters. Many hotel complexes are located near rivers in order to make it convenient for vacationers to plan their leisure time. It is not worth underestimating the element, therefore, it is better not to descend on the water without the accompaniment of experienced instructors.

In Aldan, as well as throughout the territory of Yakutia, there are many blood-sucking insects. So you need to remember about closed clothes and repellents. They will save from unpleasant consequences rest and bad mood!

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4- Four of Diamonds
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Four of Diamonds - stability card in financial sphere... This stability is achieved through hard work. The Four of Diamonds, more than all other cards in the deck, must make an effort to receive a reward for their labors; and the reward will surely come to her. However, if people with this Birth Card take the path of least resistance, they will only face disappointment and failure. All the money they receive is invariably associated with a certain responsibility.

The Fours of Diamonds have great business sense; they are excellent at organizing and running a business. While other people may see them as stubborn, the Fours of Diamonds know that if they maintain order in their lives and clearly define their goals, they will definitely achieve success and happiness. If their life goes on a knurled track, they will never change anything, no matter how others relate to it. Even in childhood, most Fours of Diamonds are firmly aware of what is important for them in life and what is not.

To achieve success, Fours of Diamonds often have to solve problems with their inherent anxiety (Karmic Card - Five of Spades) and discontent that prevent them from developing in one chosen area and moving forward progressively. The work of the Fours of Diamonds is often associated with their marriage partners or closest friends. Fours of Diamonds are very sociable, have many friends and friends. One of the main problems they may face is the tendency to "get stuck", to stop at what has been achieved and the reluctance to go further. Basically, all the Fours of Diamonds need to be happy is work. As soon as they get down to work, everything in their life is getting better and inner fears dissipate by themselves.

In the later years of the Four of Tambourines, they seek greater freedom, happiness and material well-being. Usually they are centenarians and in old age they like to travel the world, catching up on what they missed in their youth.

Relationship of the Fours of Tambourine with other people

The Fours of Diamonds are characterized by high ideals in love, which at times can bring confusion and confusion to their romantic relationship. Extremely resilient and tough people, at heart, the Fours of Tambourine are very restless. This anxiety also affects their love life, so it is not surprising that sometimes it is difficult for them to bond themselves forever with one single partner. In addition, the karmic debts of the Fours of Diamonds mean that they will have one or more difficult marriages in their life, usually ending in divorce. As a result, we are faced with people who sincerely strive for warm partnerships, but are forced to go through a series of trials in order to fulfill their dream.

A love relationship for the Fours of Diamonds is work and work again. As a rule, well-being and prosperity come to them only in later years. And if the Four of Tambourine is looking for a means of salvation from the hardships of life in love, then many problems await her.

Fours of Diamonds are not without charm and usually get their way in romantic situations. But in no case should they abuse their power over their partner! Retaliation for this will be quick and painful, and may even affect the health of the Four of Diamonds. People with this Birth Chart need to strive for true spiritual intimacy in love relationships in order to avoid extremely difficult karmic problems.

compatibility of Fours of Diamonds with other birth cards

Male Fours of Diamonds are advised to avoid women of the Hearts suit, as they have an incredibly heavy karmic bond with them. Female Fours of Diamonds can be happily married to male Spades, especially the Two of Spades. They, in turn, cause sympathy among the men of clubs. Men of Diamonds are also usually not averse to striking up an affair with the Woman of Diamonds Four.

Working life

People associated with Fours are usually quite resilient and have good resistance. They are able to withstand a lot, so it is not surprising that they have to face difficult situations in life. An example of this is the life of Roseanne Barr (formerly Roseanne Arnold), described by her in her autobiography. She is the Four of Diamonds, born under the sign of Scorpio; and Scorpio Fours of Diamonds are usually harder than other Fours of Diamonds. They have to work long and hard to achieve even the smallest success, and many of them suffer for this reason. Even the simple joys of life for Fours of Diamonds are always complicated by certain problems, so their life experience can be called more bitter than that of other cards in the deck.

Many Fours (and for the Diamonds in particular) are characterized by a strong "wrestling" ethic. The key to happiness for these people is to recognize and redefine this aspect of their personality. Although it looks like they are deliberately attracting difficult situations into their lives, in reality, the Fours of Diamonds are not at all to their liking. In fact, the cause of all their problems is a deep inner attitude, which can be roughly expressed in the following words: "I have to pay for everything in life, nothing comes easily to me. Well, let us accept life as it is. The more problems arise. on my way, the greater the reward will be. " This is exactly what happens to most of the Fours of Diamonds, although the entities do not like to constantly fight for a place in the sun. Their adventurous streak would be much better expressed about travel and adventure. Therefore, the Fours of Diamonds must understand that they have a reason to end the belief system that keeps the obstacles in their path.

Shedding light on your deepest beliefs and overestimating them is not easy, but it is possible. The Lucky Four Tambourine loves his job, but is not burdened by it. She has developed a clear value system that can benefit anyone; it is a down-to-earth approach to work, finance and life in general, bringing a sense of stability and security. The Happy Four of Tambourines was able to let positive ideals into their consciousness, believed that there could be unclouded joy in her life; and this joy was not long in coming. Her work ethic has ceased to be a heavy burden and has become a solid foundation.

This describes your relationship with your partner.

This describes how YOU treat your partner.






Tension Index = 1

Compatibility Index = 6

This describes how your partner treats YOU

Matching of the Birth Cards of both partners
You and your partner have the same Birth Cards. This guarantees a high degree of intimacy between you, but turns you into "mirrors" for each other. If you don't get along well with your partner, it's only because some of you (or both) don't like your reflection in the mirror. You met in order to learn to love yourself, and your partner can provide you with invaluable help in this. Watch closely what you like and dislike about your partner, and you will learn a lot about yourself. If you have already learned to accept and love yourself as you are, this partner will become your ideal lover. emotional closeness with him and harmony in union depend only on how you perceive the many facets of your own personality. Notes: People who have chosen a representative of their own Birth Chart as a partner usually strive to develop a great love and respect for themselves. As a rule, a person's personality is multifaceted, and not all of its aspects are obvious to us. If we suppress some traits in ourselves, then the manifestation of the same qualities in other people can be extremely annoying to us. For example, a person trying to quit smoking is angry with those who smoke in his presence. Deep down, this person also wants to smoke, but he decided not to give in to this desire anymore! And those who smoke around, once again remind him of the suppressed inner need to smoke. Therefore, a person experiences irritation, which in its essence is nothing more than fear; in this case - the fear that he will not stand it and will take up the cigarette again. Therefore, a partner whose birth chart coincides with ours, most likely, will demonstrate to us those aspects of our personality that we hide from ourselves or suppress. Moreover, we may not even be aware that we have these properties. So, if you notice traits that you don't like in your partner, take a closer look at yourself. You can learn a lot about yourself and

Venus Map in your partner's Core Spiritual Set
You and this partner have been together in the past, and since then you have been united by deep mutual love. Perhaps when you met him, you experienced "love at first sight." You can become friends or lovers; more serious and deeper relationships are also likely. It all depends on how you deal with the "foundation of love" you have. For sure, we can only say that you have every chance of creating an important and lasting union - much better chances than with almost any other partner. Comment. One of the remarkable things about this great connection is that it is "well deserved." This means that the feelings connecting you with your partner were formed in the past incarnation. Abusive type of connection often causes "love at first sight" and the like. Usually partners instantly "recognize" each other when they first meet. This bond dramatically increases the degree of compatibility and is often found in happy married couples.

Venus Map in the Basic Life Set.
You feel great love and sympathy for your partner, because you like him or his way of being inherently. There is something in this person that makes you extremely pleased to be around him. This is a great indicator for marriage. You and your partner enjoy mostly the same things; you feel that you have a lot in common with him. Thanks to this, it is easy for you to coexist with each other and you feel that your union is "right". You are highly compatible and can have a great time together. Comment. The planet Venus is associated with the pleasure principle. The more pleasure partners derive from the relationship, the longer they can be together and the greater their chances of a successful marriage. However, Venus alone may not be enough to maintain a long-term relationship. Often times, people who are united by a Venus bond simply become close friends. However, if there is such a connection between spouses, this is an extremely favorable indicator for a happy marriage, unless other connections in the couple prevent it too seriously.

Venus Map in Spiritual Core Set
You are connected with your partner by strong "bonds of love", the reason for which is difficult to explain, since they were formed in a past life. Therefore, at a meeting between you, it is quite possible that "love at first sight" broke out. The feeling of mutual recognition that you and your partner have is also the result of a subconscious connection developed as a result of communication in a previous incarnation. You and your partner have great sympathy for each other, and therefore are highly compatible. You are pleased with each other's company, you have common tastes and interests. This is an extremely favorable connection for marriage, as well as for any other type of relationship. The strong love that arises between you effortlessly serves as a solid foundation for living together. It remains only to decide what exactly you want to build on this solid foundation!

Venus Map in your partner's Basic Life Set
Your partner adores you. You have a lot in common with him, making you feel comfortable together and love to spend time together. This is a good indicator for marriage or friendship. You can derive a lot of pleasure from living together, you have a lot of sympathy and attraction for each other. Choosing this partner, you did the right thing.

Attractiveness index * = 6

You are extremely attracted to this person and want to be with him.

Tension Index = 1

It's basically a calm relationship that doesn't have excessive drama or problems.

Compatibility Index = 6

This is a very good relationship for you and someone with whom you can live long.

* The higher the attractiveness and compatibility index, as well as the lower the tension index, the better. The maximum index value is 10